Do Black men have what it takes to keep a black woman happy?

My answer....HELL NO!! And the same goes vise versa. I'm sorry if I sound retarded are like a sell out. I have never seen a black women cry more over what a black man has done to her in my life! It is sad that my fellow brothers are not trying hard to keep us happy. Is it because black women have instilled the notion that we are independent and strong so we don't need a man to keep us happy? Is it because a black man who grew up in a single family home has seen his mother cry all the time about the men in her life, so he thinks it is normal for a women to act this way? Or I'm a narrow minded, bitter black woman who has yet to experience the love of a black man?